Men And Homosexuality 
Published on August 6, 2010 by pmnews · 24 Comments
Homosexuality is a romantic or sexual attraction among members of the same sex or gender.Currently, the most common adjectives in use are lesbian for women and gay for men. But the truth is that gay can refer to either male or female.
Our society has gotten so infiltrated that we have suddenly accepted the things we used to see as madness in the western world. I was happy when I read the Compass newspaper of 27th May, 2010;â€Obasanjo on homosexuality: it is an abomination.â€Ex-president Obasanjo openly disagreed with former United Nations secretary, Koffi Annan in Johannesburg at the launch of the latest report of Africa Progress Panel (APP) Obasanjo indicated his support for the sentencing of a gay man to 14 years in prison with hard labour.
Our ex president Obasanjo is a man we all don’t see anything good in, but I can tell you that I respect this man for holding on to our African culture and defending it, no matter where he is. In his defence, he said that if God is in support of homosexuality, He would have created not male and female, but same sex.
This is one topic that I know, will bring so much disagreements and criticisms from my readers, but like I always say, the truth must be told without thinking whose ox is gored. This whole madness of homosexuality has eaten so deep into our society that we are almost beginning to accept it as normal. Tell me, what is normal in a man or a woman getting attracted to someone of same sex? What is normal about anal sex? Any man who can be bold enough to ask for anal sex from a woman is no doubt into homosexuality.
The most painful part of this is that most of these beasts still go back, sleep with their wives and leave them with terrible diseases at the end of the day.Isnt it sad seeing catholic priests becoming gays? The Anglican Archbishop of Cantebury, it was discovered is a gay. We are gradually accepting this as morally right. So many pastors, even Nigerian pastors are into this. There was the case of a gay pastor somewhere around Ojodu whose father disowned publicly. I remember my pastor telling us a story about a gay pastor he met. This man performs so many miracles, or do I call it magic. He gets his power by sleeping with young men.
It is sad, but most of our politicians are gay. We have the story all over the place about one of our ex presidents who is a big time gay. It is no longer news how our top businessmen even a telecommunications guru, make so much money from him just by allowing him do whatever he does with them.
So many of these guys have gone into oil and gas through him. Majority of them are making it big in politics through him. But what they don’t know is that most people that practice homosexuality in Nigeria do it for spiritual reasons. Most of these guys are so devilish that you can never get anything from them except you decide to play along.
We once read the story of a former vice president and a former beauty queen. This former beauty queen, who is now married, had to travel to South Africa for treatment when she started leaking after anal sex with this ex vice president. Surprising, the extent people go for money.
Our young boys have suddenly become useless due to this same issue. They no longer care to work hard after school. All they do is dress to attract these company owners and politicians who pick them up and set them up in good businesses and jobs. It is no longer women alone who get job by sleeping with men. Men also get good grades in exams and hit it big when it comes to contracts and jobs just by giving their body to these animals.
I used to think it is only their sugar mummies that set these guys up. Now I have come to realise that their male partners even do more for them. I wonder what will make a man leave a woman and start running to a fellow man with hairs all over his body. I think there is more to this than meets the eye.
Some young boys have ruled out marriage as an issue in their lives. They get into relationships with all these useless, devilish men who promise them heaven and earth. They rent houses for them and give them good cars. Some of them even get married without their wives knowing what they are into. The man comes to the house, they are always together and this makes the innocent woman believe her husband is faithful to her without knowing he is into something worse.
But there are still some crazy women who love their husbands being with a man instead of a woman.Infact,I recently heard a story of a particular couple .They enjoy seeing each other with their gay partner. The man goes out of his way to get even prostitutes for his wife and then he watches them do it. Tell me, is there any other form of abnormality stronger than this?
I pity the women who have these men in their lives. They just live their lives either in a miserable way or they get into things they ordinarily wouldn’t have gone into. I was told the story of a popular car dealer on the island whose wife is a regular face in the social scene. This guy has gone so deep into it that the wife no longer bothers about him. She decided to start having affairs with other men and at the same time as a lesbian. This is not to justify the women who do such, but I can tell you that these women most times get into all these because there is no satisfaction from their man who does not see any good reason to have sex with her except for baby making.
These days, we see men dress almost like women. Some of their natives are now being made to be so fitted with the curve meant for a woman’s clothing. They now wear women’s tops and pants. You see them trimming their eyebrow like women. Most of these guys are not seen in the company of other men most times. They are the ones that act as females in bed. I once had one as an employee. He always dressed, talked and walked like a girl. He comes to work hanging a woman’s bag. It was only when a client complained about him that I asked him to go.
It is something that is so strong to the point that some of these men now sleep with their own sons and their friends. They have lost control when it comes to this that they go for everything. We used to think men with male secretaries are more decent than those with female secretaries. That may not be the case as some of these PAs and secretaries are nothing but bed mates.
To defend this lifestyle of homosexuality, some people claim they were born like that. I don’t think God makes that kind of mistake. Why is it that all of a sudden so many guys are getting involved in it?
I tried talking to people and getting their views on this. A guy told me that he enjoys homosexual relationships because he just can’t trust any woman again.Another,though a lady said: “women are into it because they can’t go on taking shit from menâ€. She went further to say that she doesn’t have to worry about pregnancy and after-sex-pain. From my own observation, some of them get involved in it unconsciously and by the time they realise what is happening, it is too late to quit as they are either enjoying it or reaping the rewards. A good number of them get into homosexuality for the rewards- money and fame.
Whatever your defence is for getting involved in such a barbaric relationship, homosexuality, be it lesbianism or gay (as we call it for men), is foreign to the African culture. We shouldn’t let civilisation destroy us and our good moral heritage.
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After all said and done, do we know God? Who said other people were created by God and other’s weren’t? If we were all created by this woman, sorry man or whatever that God is, do you think it was a mistake from “his” side that we are different, do you think “he” wanted us to be the same? I’m not sure why “he” created Chinese, blacks whites, Indians, Coloureds and the rest, just to enjoy seeing racism? Why are others short while some are tall, dark some light, ugly some beautiful, did “he ” do that just to enjoy us fighting about who is better than the other?
I don’t know what the plan was but I’m sure of one thing, we are not the same, whether we hate each other or we get used to it, we will never be the same even if we were twins. I am not white, but I found myself in this world black and that is who I am, even if a white man can oppress me and think they are superior, it is not my falt to be black, short or ugly.
One time I found myself reading an article on a magazine that so suprised me course it said I was gay, I didn’t know the meaning or anything else but one thing for sure, I was attracted to men. At 14 years old I started to pray everyday and night, to God, asking him to make me “normal”. I dated girls but never fell in love. I tought myself how to walk like a man, talk like one, dress like the roughest one around and even to point the middle finger, slap and smoke.
We are not the same no matter how much I can try to do your thing, it’s you, not me. I know this may sound strange, I hate being gay, but who else can I be. Why can’t I wake up and find myself attracted to women, get married and have children with the woman I love, like my brother is doing. Anyway, I am happier that I’m me now, I’ve grown and realised that no matter how much I can try to please people, I will never please them all. So let me just stick with loving me and everyone else after. Surprisingly, this is the time I realise how beautiful it is to be loved, with no disguise.
If we look at the human nature no one have simplified the fact that some women look like men and some men look like women. We all know that there are homones that make one man stronger than the other and some genes that make us look and behave differently from the others. So what is “normal” to you? Why would you want me to be attracted to what you are attracted to, so that we can fight over it. Isn’t it better that I can look at her clivage and think, shame she is cold, while you think she’s hot. Sometimes it is difficult to understand each other, maybe you don’t even understand yourself, but, acceptance or maybe a little bit of tolerance won’t harm you but I’m sure it can teach you a thing or two. Or maybe just stay away, avoid, leave, look for somegroup that is going to lie to you and say you are exactly the same and enjoy your missarable life with no challenges or growth, stop harassing people. When is it going to end? Be happy with yourself and wish the next person some happiness too, so we live in a peaceful world with love and happiness.
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Homosexualist hurt feelings and political manipulation
By Tim Bloedow
It’s one thing to run to Daddy or Mommy with hurt feelings when your brother or sister insults you. Most children don’t even run to their teachers when they are offended on the playground.
So, what’s with all these homosexual activists using hurt feelings as their primary lament in terms of public policy and running like infants to Daddy-politician to stroke them and make them feel better?
You see it again this week with the Human Rights Campaign (HRC). In response to an apology from the CEO of Target for a corporate donation to Minnesota gubernatorial candidate Tom Emmer, HRC President Joe Solmonese says, “The fact that their political contribution was used to advance an anti-equality candidate was extremely hurtful to all fair-minded Americans.â€
OK, I know what you know: this “hurt feelings†whine is simply a tool of political manipulation. But nobody says that. After all, in today’s infantilistic environment, you can’t challenge a person’s claim of hurt feelings. You might hurt their feelings even more! And that is an unforgivable sin.
What is just as remarkable as making “hurt feelings†a priority offense is the expectation that the state will arbiter the situation to address the hurt feelings.
Only in a sub-adolescent society is the state imputed with the identity of Daddy/god. People who have abandoned normal familial relations and civilized social relationships seek to replace them with perverse alternatives. As a result, homosexualists embrace militant totalitarianism, where the state is seen as the central organizing principle for society – central organizing principle would be synonymous with god, Daddy, Big Brother.
Whether homosexualists are sincere when lamenting hurt feelings or whether they are using the rhetoric for political manipulation, both motives reflect deviant thinking: a slavish dependency posture towards the state. It is this inherent state-ist nature of homosexualism that makes it such a threat to the survival of free and democratic societies.
If homosexualists have so many hurt feelings, they should repent of their sin and go back to mom and dad to work things out, not to their politicians or to human rights commissions or other agents of the state.
For those of you claiming homosexuality is a “lifestyle”, that is a false and ignorant statement. Homosexuality is not a choice. Just like you don’t choose the color of your skin, you cannot choose whom you are sexually attracted to. If you can, sorry, but you are not heterosexual, you are bi-sexual. Virtually all major psychological and medical experts agree that sexual orientation is NOT a choice. Most gay people will tell you its not a choice. Common sense will tell you its not a choice. While science is relatively new to studying homosexuality, studies tend to indicate that its biological.
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There is overwhelming scientific evidence that homosexuality is not a choice. Sexual orientation is generally a biological trait that is determined pre-natally, although there is no one certain thing that explains all of the cases. “Nurture” may have some effect, but for the most part it is biological.
And it should also be noted that:
“It is worth noting that many medical and scientific organizations do believe it is impossible to change a person’s sexual orientation and this is displayed in a statement by American Academy of Pediatrics, American Counseling Association, American Association of School Administrators, American Federation of Teachers, American Psychiatric Association, American Psychological Association, American School Health Association, Interfaith Alliance Foundation, National Association of School Psychologists, National Association of Social Workers, and National Education Association.”
This writer have said it all, to those that claimed they were born that way, may God punish them…I know people in government won’t do or say anything about this cos as the writer rightly said, large number of them are gay.
As you feel free to invoke the curses of your ‘god’ on another, I hope your ‘god’ will be similarly generous in cursing you when he feels you have failed. Ignorance as displayed by this columnist is a clear example of the failure of our education system to produce rational thinkers and coherent writers.
It is good that she takes ‘spiritual’ advice from the likes of Obasanjo, who is happy to sleep with his son’s wife and loot the public purse with impunity. For all the nations’ problems, cretins like you and the columnist, instead of looking to create concrete plans for the provision of electricity, water, and jobs for the multitudes pouring out in their semi-literate millions from our useless schools every year, like the columnist who struggles to express herself in English … no, it turns out we have ‘weighty’ issues like homosexuality to concern us.
God bless you with all the generosity you show to others who are different from you. A good prayer, is it not!
There is no two ways about it, Any man or woman who practice homosexuality will definitely end up in Hell fire …..
Its a fact and not an assumption. For crying aloud whats the enjoyment in that rubbish they are doing?
Lanotulai Alaie…
Goshhhh this people are mad.
This is the most ignorant article I ever read. Too many contradictions and hyperbole not based on fact but on the writer’s prejudices.
GOD does not make mistakes.Homosexuality means God is not knowledgeable
No facts, just stories heard through the grapevine. That is most of teh content in this article. The writer is ignorant and incompetent. Should rewrite with facts, even if they are predjuced. Even a 1st year student journalist would not come up with this crap.
The Attempt at explaining homosexual practices through scientific studies could be likened to the evolution theory which which make fools out of men…at least those who believe in it. The practice is the perversion of the head and is therefore a spiritual problem which cannot be studied scientifically. Until gay ladies and gents get their heads straightened-out…they will continue in this perversion. Those among them who claim to be Christians are nothing but lesion in the body of Christ. Until we check the wide and wild infiltration of our society by foreign culture, we may continue to have the increased acceptance and practice of this hideous practice by the younger generation.
What can i say but a job well done. i join you in the fight against this cruel abnormality. God makes no mistakes and so He mustn’t have made mistakes in creating those that claim that they were born that way.
Please i wish to be getting copies of this paper as i just read it for the first time online. i reside in Lokoja, Kogi state. my postal address is PO Box 728 Lokoja. Am ready to pay the cost and that of the postage.
More grease to your elbow madam
I so hope that for your sake your husband is not one of them closeted gays ’cause articles / views like this is what makes most gay men get married so they can hide their under the guise of marriage while sleeping around with men.
Took time out to read your article in detail.
Any man who can be bold enough to ask for anal sex from a woman is no doubt into homosexuality.
You need to get your facts straight. Anal sex is not equal to being gay. If you have a close relationship with some women, they’ll actually reveal to you that they like it. Anal sex don’t make you gay at all.
The most painful part of this is that most of these beasts still go back, sleep with their wives and leave them with terrible diseases at the end of the day.
Like I said previously your article is only going to strenthen this bad behaviour. Lack of tolearnce of gays is what makes the lesbians and gays get married and sleep with the same sex behind their partners back. Lord knows if I have the means, I’ll be screening all my sister’s boyfriends and possible husband.
Jouranlists write with facts and you don’t which actually makes me doubt your degree. If you are so bold enough to attack the gays, you might as well be bold enough as to reveal who this ex-president and beauty queen are. WE WANT FACTS not GOSSIP!
,I recently heard a story of a particular couple .They enjoy seeing each other with their gay partner. The man goes out of his way to get even prostitutes for his wife and then he watches them do it. Tell me, is there any other form of abnormality stronger than this?
Live and let live. Are they disturbing in any way? Are affecting your health. If we were to secretly look into the sex lives of most nigerians you’d discover some major kinkiness going on. It’s all about what gets your rocks off. IT’S SEX AND YOU’VE GOT TO ENJOY IT YOUR OWN WAY!
Please take note of this: sleeping with the same sex, doesn’t make you gay. There’s more to being gay than just sex.
Finally beware of how you promote HOMOPHOBIA cos it’s a known fact that the greatest HOMPHOBES are actually CLOSETED GAYS who can stand those who have accepted themselves for who they are. Did someone say Bishop Eddie Long?
Took time out to read your article in detail.
Any man who can be bold enough to ask for anal sex from a woman is no doubt into homosexuality.
You need to get your facts straight. Anal sex is not equal to being gay. If you have a close relationship with some women, they’ll actually reveal to you that they like it. Anal sex don’t make you gay at all.
The most painful part of this is that most of these beasts still go back, sleep with their wives and leave them with terrible diseases at the end of the day.
Like I said previously your article is only going to strenthen this bad behaviour. Lack of tolearnce of gays is what makes the lesbians and gays get married and sleep with the same sex behind their partners back. Lord knows if I have the means, I’ll be screening all my sister’s boyfriends and possible husband.
Journalists write with facts and you don’t which actually makes me doubt your degree. If you are so bold enough to attack the gays, you might as well be bold enough as to reveal who this ex-president and beauty queen are. WE WANT FACTS not GOSSIP!
,I recently heard a story of a particular couple .They enjoy seeing each other with their gay partner. The man goes out of his way to get even prostitutes for his wife and then he watches them do it. Tell me, is there any other form of abnormality stronger than this?
Live and let live. Are they disturbing in any way? Are affecting your health. If we were to secretly look into the sex lives of most nigerians you’d discover some major kinkiness going on. It’s all about what gets your rocks off. IT’S SEX AND YOU’VE GOT TO ENJOY IT YOUR OWN WAY!
Please take note of this: sleeping with the same sex, doesn’t make you gay. There’s more to being gay than just sex.
Finally beware of how you promote HOMOPHOBIA cos it’s a known fact that the greatest HOMOPHOBES are actually CLOSETED GAYS who can stand those who have accepted themselves for who they are. Did someone say Bishop Eddie Long?
All homosexuals gay or lesbians, will burn hell. Remember sodom and gomorrah? God hates this sin. If you find yourself attracted to your sex you need deliverance a demon has come on you. In Eden God created Adam and eve not same sex persons. I can help. Call +2348034729430 or evanstan2003@yahoo.com and I will help you.
i think the issue is a spiritual one. we need srong prayers.
Who are we as mere humans to say that God made a mistake by making some people gay? Homosexuality is a small part of human sexuality. It occurs naturally and has been a part of human sexuality for as long as humanity has been in existence.
For those who make reference to God whenever homosexuality is mentioned, why don’t you do quote the Bible and the Quran to our corrupt politicians who have ruined our country and our children’s future? Why is your sense of indignation directed only towards homosexuals?
All in all, the author of this article has demonstrated a considerable degree of ignorance about homosexuality. It would help us all if we could read more widely and educate ourselves before we open our mouths and spill the sort of garbage in this article and in many of the comments.
Hi Amara
I have never read your article but came across it today. I am not surprised by your “article”. I would recommend you go back to writing school. It lacked an intro body and a conclusion. it was more like pieces of a jigsaw puzzle no head no tail. That being aside i would like to ask for those whose religion is not your Christian religion do you respect their opinion.
Now let’s talk about the issue on same gender relationship. I am a proud gay Nigerian man open about my sexuality and confident in who i am. This did not come easy for me, to be honest. I have had to deal with people like you all my life. People who are quick to judge and ready to condemn without taking time out to understand, I can boldly tell you that i never choose to be gay okay. I have tried everything from prayer, fasting deliverance and all that and still no change. I have been to all the major churches in Nigeria seen all the pastors and prophets still no change. I hated myself and lived in denial, i hurt myself and attempted suicide and still i am gay. I am a Christian and love god so much that i preach His gospel. The gospel of God is not of hate but of love. It is a gospel filled with joy and peace and not fear and anger. The issue of Sodom and Gomorrah was never homosexuality i would like to see the word in your bible OK. I preach to people and they get saved. I lay hand on the sick and they get ill. I was surprised when u said that Christians do this to get “juju” for miracles. I doubt you are educated from that statement or you bribed your way through college.
A quick question on culture and what is African and UnAfrican. Is Christianity or Islam African? These same western people that you condemn fr Homosexual rise in the world are the ones that brought their religion and imposed it on us. They brought technology, clothes and all that you are wearing and using now as well. You want o dine eating their food drinking their drinks driving their car, yet you say we copy everything they have. I would be damned to see you got out all things westernized in your life and go back to the era before the westerners came to Nigeria. In doing so you would realize that same sex relationship is so African and part of our history and heritage.
I would not be surprised if you have a homosexual child, i wonder if you would kill him/her or love the child.
Homosexual are normal, it is only a perverted mind that would look at the sexual aspect which i guess you are since all you see is sex. There is the emotional attraction involved. I tried dating women but i was not being honest in my relationship to them. I was always looking for that extra something i could not get from them.
i have never used my sexuality for any monetary or given anyone monetary compensation OK I knew i was sexually attracted to the same sex right from when i was young. I was not scared abused or molested. My father was not absent in my life or anything like that OK I have brothers and sisters who are heterosexual. My happiness is more important to me than trying to live a make believe world. I am glad my family is not expecting any daughter-in-law from me, because ain’t none coming to them but a son-in-law.
Talking about how women hit on you and you run away then i am sure you open up your legs when men hit on you and warm their beds right. in fact this is a waste of time replying your biased article. Go seek knowledge.
hello all. I want to say something about Homosexuality. First it is bad. Now about our tradition not accepting it that is wrong. Homosexuality is only wrong amongst the Muslims and Christians. Homosexuality didn’t start in the western world. IT started in AFRICA. remember the bible (“Sodom and Gomorrah”) I believe that is why it is called Sodomy. Homosexuality is frowned upon even in the Western world. So Madam Amara Please get your story straight .
This ‘article’ is RUBBISH! People like this ignorant ‘writer’ should be completely ignored because she’s just voicing her own personal opinion with no facts at all! This is really sad…and i’m not even gay!
THE ARTICLE SHOULD BE TITLED “AFRICAN CONFUSION ON HUMAN SEXUALITY.”
Very interesting, the whole conversation. This African woman is speaking about upholding African traditions and Christianity isn’t even traditional in Africa. It was imported. If you do your research, most African culture has not only tolerated same-sex relationships throughout time, but also respected them so much that shamans and spiritual leaders were often homosexual or bisexual at the least. If she were to tell the truth about her insecurities regarding sexuality, the article would be much more coherent.
I suspect that the underlying motivation for the article, especially referencing so many religious perspectives, was to demonize homosexual men and women as a focal point of what is uncomfortable in society in general. This is ridiculous, though, because how can a person’s sexuality have anything to do with economic and social unrest? Think about it: How does the love, sex and intimacy two men or two women have impact the love, sex and intimacy of the rest of the heterosexuals out there? Why would heterosexuals even be concerned with homosexual lives? What is the connection?
Also, let’s say ALLLLL the gay and lesbian people finally woke up one day and listened to the rhetoric in this article. What would they do? How would they change and stop feeling the way they feel or liking what they like? How stupid is that idea, really? There has got to be more to this story than what is being told. Because it simply does not make sense to keep going over it again and again.
l once went to a senior lawyers office he locked his door n brought out his manhood n starting robbing it with vaseline, i was pissed off cos he was almost d age of my dad.He promised 2 sponsor me 2 any part of d world,i colly n calmly told him 2 give me time 2 think about it n do u know when i came out of his office his staff were looking at me as another prey by their boss.l had 2 disabuse d mind of one of d staff who i knew n dat was d last time i ever went to that chambers, d man is late now was a silk in d law profession n once a minister. May God help us dis scourge is so much here in abuja.
I am always amazed when I see a woman writing about male homosexuality. This writer believes that all there is to male homosexuality is anal sex. I really should do some research into male same sex relationships and maybe she would come away with a different opinion.