Women And Lesbianism 
Published on August 10, 2010 by pmnews · 33 Comments
Last week, I started talking about homosexualism and I am happy with the kind of responses I got from the readers. Text messages and calls were coming in from all parts of the country, commending my courage to write what so many shy away from. But in the midst of all these, I was shocked when I got a text from a woman, encouraging homosexuality. I just pity this generation of African children, where women now find themselves doing what they should be working very hard to stop.
This is one topic that is long overdue, but I had to give it time to understudy these women and get used to their mode of operation.
Being a public figure, I get lots of toasters, both male and surprisingly, female and being in the beauty business has also afforded me the opportunity of mixing up with several kinds of people, gay and straight. I remember women coming into the massage room and ask for my cleaner who has no knowledge of aromatherapy. Why do they do this? The cleaner, unlike the skin therapist, does whatever they asked her to do.
I remember meeting with a lady in Shoprite. This lady who was picking some items from the same shelf with me, suddenly greeted me with a smile. We got talking and then she started to ask some intimate questions. After some time, she realised I am not one of them and finally before she left, she said “you are too beautiful not to be a lesbian.â€
Some other time, I was in my office talking with my staff when my phone rang. This particular lady called previously, claiming she needed our service. But when she called back for her booking, she went into something totally out of it. She asked if I have a very close female friend. I told her I don’t have any woman too close to me. I left my phone on speaker because I was busy with my hands. So many questions came from her, ranging from marriage to children, business trips and midnight calls. I later politely ended the conversation.
Then came this incidence that took place just few weeks back. I was with a friend when some lady called, asking for permission for midnight calls. I immediately told her I hate midnight calls, but on a second thought, I knew I needed to gather enough information for this article and I accepted to talk with her at midnight, although a tough very sacrifice indeed.
She called at exactly 12.15 a.m.Yes, she wasn’t too free with me because she kept on reminding me of the games journalists play with people, but I did my best to make her open up. I asked to know how she got into the practice of lesbianism. Friends, it was the school mother who got her into it. This is the reason mothers have to be very careful when it comes to the choice of schools and relationships.
I know of a particular all girls’ school where lesbianism has become a norm. I remember doing my best for a friend to change her mind when she wanted to send her daughter to that school. But the school is one that so many parents are crazy about and that made my friend to insist on having her daughter pass through it. Just after one term, my friend called to let me know her daughter was no longer there.
Back to my story, this lady, who is a dedicated church worker, called me for this filthy talk right from her room in camp, where they went for a Christian gathering. According to her, she is presently in a relationship with two sisters who are now enemies because of her.
We keep hearing of our actresses who are into this shameful act. Recently, we heard of a female senator who bought a Range Rover SUV for a lesbian partner who is an actress. Just last week, my friend told me a story about two women in VGC, who moved out of their homes, left their children and moved into a new house as man and wife. What is this world turning into?
A particular woman around Omole goes out of her way to even rape women in her house. This very fat woman also has another friend who can spend her last on women. Some years back, this lady, a mother, had the mind to abuse a secondary school girl. The mother of this girl who saw her daughter’s body changing drastically had to beat her and this made her to open up. The woman went to fight her but the damage had been done. This same lady also abused a little girl of about 12, who visited her daughter. In the absence of her daughter at home, this evil woman made the little girl suck her. Mother, please be careful when it comes to your children paying visits to their school friends. A lot of these children, just like their mothers, are into so many evils.
I had to run away from a woman who was close to me in a women’s fellowship I used to belong. This woman, who is an executive member of this fellowship, now hates me and says all kinds of rubbish against me without people knowing why she is doing that. I got into her house some day and sat in the sitting room. Suddenly, this lady took my face to kiss my mouth, but God helped me, I was able to run for my dear life. That was my last visit to her house.
So many of these society ladies have sent several text messages to me, asking me to name my price. I am sure I am not the only one who has been through this experience. Yours could even be worse than mine. A friend told me about a party she attended. This party was hosted by a woman for a fellow woman and got to a point that lights were turned off and then everyone with her lesbian partner. Trust my friend, she ran out immediately.
Please, be more cautious when you are invited to that “all-girls-night-outâ€parties. Don’t always trust women who throw big parties for their friends. In most cases, those friends are nothing but their lesbian partners.
So many women now hide under the guise of best friends to cover up their different atrocities. I recently heard of a particular woman who had her lesbian partners fight over her when they travelled on business to the USA.
Lesbianism is not a new thing in town. It has always been there, it is just that it has become more rampant. I remember seeing some girls in my secondary school days fall upon themselves and press their boobs all in the name of play. In our innocence, we believed they were only being playful, but now, I know better.
Right now in Enugu, they have a particular club where they meet every Friday for their meeting and networking. One of them recently stabbed her partner for leaving her for another woman. Is this not the end of the world?
Women who practise lesbianism came up with several reasons for getting involved in it. According to them, women are naturally more sensitive to other people’s need and therefore sex is better with them both emotionally and physically.
Some say girls are more tender and loving than a man with his hard skin and hairs, but women are more creative and versatile lovers, who make you enjoy yourself without your man doubting your faithfulness.
You enjoy yourself without the fear of pregnancy as a woman knows what a fellow woman wants in bed better than a man, while it is a way of achieving independence from men.
Male sexual performance—20 minutes with a man, 60 minutes with a woman. A woman has more sustained energy level after orgasm and is likely to know what to do if she is not satisfied.
There is this particular one that told me: “Amara, you speak against it because you have never experienced it, if you do, nothing else will matter more than time spent with her.â€
Girls, do you see the level of demon possession of this world? So many of our pastors’ wives are into this act that I see as the greatest level of insanity when a woman stops getting attracted to a man and then decides to settle for a woman. It is better you get your husband to satisfy you in bed than for you to begin to do all those filthy stuff with a fellow woman.
You may be thanking God now that you are not part of it, but know what? It is becoming more rampant and you may find yourself into it soonest.
Stop visiting all those sex sites on the internet, while you show me your friends and I will tell you who you are.
Watch out for any warning signs for that woman who is very close to you and be careful what you watch on television and read from books.
Remember, it is a battle of the mind and if you are able to hate it passionately and stay away from all appearances of that evil, you won’t be caught up in the web. Beware, a lot of women are daily being initiated into this wicked cult.
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If this practice is allowed to fester, it shall mark the genesis of Godlessness in Nigeria.Homosexuality/Lesbianism is inherent in mankind as it has been in existence since the begining of time, but the practice has never been allowed any light of day due to a natural/logical choice of male round peg (the penis) in female round receptacle hole (the vagina). Heterosexual choice is dominant over that homosexual as it’s not natural. Not all of us has the ability to drop childhood habits. Homosexuality is observed in children but as they grow to maturity the behaviour is droped as male bulge in pants and nippled breasts awareness sets in.
wetin this country dey turn to?
Incidentally, homosexuality and lesbianism happens to be one of God’s reason for the destruction of Sodom and Gomorha.
Yes, that is how seriously he views it and for those that are still involved in it, watch out for GOD!
This is serious!
WHICH IS WORSE LESBIANISM OR AUTHORITARIANISM (BAD GOVERNMENT, ELECTION RIGGING, CORRUPTION, POVERTY AND HER SISTERS)?
FREEDOM IN A SOCIETY SHOULD NOT BE CURTAILED BECAUSE OF THE RELIGIOUS VIEWS OF SOME MAJORITY. THE MAJORITY HAVE THEIR, MINORITY HAVE THEIR RIGHTS, THAT IS DEMOCRACY!
This rot has been with us for some time and the truth is that we have turned a blind eye to this over time. Nollywood is even beginning to include scenes that encourage it in our movies and this is utterly despicable. In Port Harcourt where I live girls think its a wonderful thing to indulge in. And more worrisome is the fact that most of their contact are made in churches and religious groups. I still wonder where we are headed. When the seemingly Godly people are the ones desecrating God injunctions.
I thank you Amara for bringing this up. I doubt if you need any more information on this but if you do feel free to email me but the effort to stop this has to be sustained and fired up. It is unnatural and any God fearing person should fight it.
WOW GOD BLESS YOU SIS. JUST LAST WEEK I WAS WATCHING THIS ON YOUTUBE…http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JA_cz34sY3U
God help us out………the world is becoming something else….even in churches…….eeeewwwwwwwwww
…Girl this is the lowest level of journalism. You are biased and said so right from the onset. I am not in support of it but I will not crucify those in it. You are a journalist so be fair and open minded!!!
Really? I am going to be polite because Nigerians are generally ignorant about this issue and homophobia is deep in the culture. First off “Homosexualism” is not a word. You think it is some kind of demonic possession, have you looked around to see some marriages that happen to be in bad shape. Do you know the number of married men and women that are together because they will not admit their homosexuality, that they are not infact attracted to their wife, do you know the struggle they go through everyday because people like you sit on your high horse and judge others, when you dont understand something, i think it is best you don’t come out to spread incorrect information.
Now do you think, given the prejudice in Nigeria people will come out to say that they are gay, no, so those coming out are quite brave, i am not quite sure who appointed you judge, but really your advise is completely ridiculous. You know over-dramatizing the fact that women hit on you and you had to run for your dear life is just sad really. I suppose when men hit on you, you politely tell them you are not interested, why you cannot do the same for a woman without running is beyond me. I expect people to live thier lives honestly because people have only 1 life to live! If you are uncomfortable with the idea of being around gay people thats one thing, but to come out here and say stuff like
“Remember, it is a battle of the mind and if you are able to hate it passionately and stay away from all appearances of that evil, you won’t be caught up in the web. Beware, a lot of women are daily being initiated into this wicked cult.”
This is the most ignorant and hate-filled statement i have heard. You can stay in your world and not recognize that not everyone is the same, that there is a variety of human beings out there and that there are gay couples that have loving relationships that i am sure you will envy. What i need for you to do, is to do a little more research before you write articles like this. I know they say ignorance is bliss, but “A wise man makes his own decisions, an ignorant man follows public opinion†Why don’t you get to know these people you talk about with disgust. And for the record, no one can make you gay, you are either one or not. It is not an initiation, if you do become gay after meeting a woman, then maybe you were not straight.
you are the worst fool i have ever seen in this world.Your write up have no bases so just go and sit down.What the writer is saying is a known fact and she is encouraging the young ones to stay clear of evil.
trust me Nigerians r nt at all ignorant esp d youths
She even shows her face. You can educate an ignorant person but you can’t do anything with stupid. This article is an epic FAIL
Dear Naijapikin and RZA
Thanks sister. May ALLAH rewards for the boldness. I really appreciate your contribution. Hey Naijapikin and RZA, tell us are you both gays or what?
You seem to support this barricade, ungodly act. Hope you still remember that GOD destroy a nation becuase of the foolish act?
May God help us all.
Baby Girl, who or what gave you the right or authority to judge others? your religious beliefs? you have every right like me to shy away from gay relationships, however that does not give you the right, power or authority to judge anyone. You are obviously ignorant of the truism that ‘your rights ends where that of others begin’.
i like d article bt if u want 2 get more readers try 2 b a bit open minded unlessu wont inspire ppl indulgn in ds act mayb u cld try interviewn a lesbian and try 2 undastand y she got in2 ds and try 2 help her 2 stop……………………………
If Lesbianism/homosexuality are ok and natural as the western media would have us believe, then ask yourself this question: Why do these people have the ability to procreate, they should have been born without this ability then probably their argument would hold some water. It is clear, Man and Woman not man and man or woman and woman. Remember God cannot be mocked you reap what you sow. Sodom Destroyed for this evil act God will never bend his rules for any man. This is a learned act an evil act that first starts in the mind.
PLEASE REPENT YOU GENERATION OF HOMOSEXUAL ISM AND LESBIANISM FOR THE MERCIES OF GOD. DO YOU KNOW YOU ARE GOING TO ACCOUNT FOR ALL YOU HAVE DONE WITH LIFE, SO RECEIVE JESUS TODAY AND NEVER GO BACK TO ACT AGAIN.
Where are we taking our next generation? We better stop amplifying these immoral values for the sake our next generation. We should rather hand down a sound moral values. Enough mimicking of the rotten western norms and values already in Nigeria. Go to any village in Nigeria, let me begin with from where I come from, the South South where our girls/ladies normal dressing is now jean trouser & tight top. No more the usual wraps. To our young men/women, cocaine drug use is routine. Indian hemp is now ordinary street use cigar.
One of the greatest gifts of GOD to human beings is Choice.
Therefore, homosexualism is a choice, but an inordinate choice!. Homosexuality is not natural, something must have gone wrong in the brains/system of the practitioners (of course there are birth defects)
Even in science, like poles repel, and unlike pole attracts. (-ve/-ve repels, +ve/+ve attracts)
amara,
things happen so fast. we blacks are quick to copy only d bad things of life in d name of keeping pace with d world. man can no longer satisfy them vice versa.
one thing is sure…judgment will surely come.
Amara i must say you have really done great by talking about this act, Well the only thing i can say is not everybody is mentally sane, and not everyone is human , some people are demons in human form, so all this lesbianism and fagot ism is away of taking people to satan’s Kingdom.
people should just becareful with what they get involved in so they don’t regret it.
Thanks
i oppose this EVIL but not for religious reasons. if it is becoming rampant as the article suggests, then waht is the future for herosexual men like me? these lesbians are increasing thealready tense competion among men for women. i tot all i had to compete with was my fellow man, but now women! this competition is rigged against men. the govt must hear this one. enuf is enuf. bordas wake up from ur slumber. dont wait for it to get worse, otherwise two men may start marrying one woman due to scarcity.
Lesbianism has been around for a very long time. I believe even among the ENUGU babes U talk about. I remember whilst serving there(NYSC) i witness a fight where an Older woman actually said she paid the Young lady’s bride price and therefore she (the young lady) was her wife. We all know the Igbo tradition (Whoever pays ur bride price owns U)
Ezekiel 16: 49-50 gave us the real reasons for the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah. The same sin has destroyed our nation. It is not homosexuality but greed, lack of compassion for the poor. Excessive fear of visitors. Rape etc. All these led to the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah.
Read it.
What I see in Amara’s passion about homosexuality.
Amara is a professional journalist who wants to make it big time and like most Nigerians wants to make it at any cost, no matter what it costs other.
Amara is seeking attention and she is getting the attention because she is dealing with a world of sensation.
Amara writes with passion for her paper not to give the truth of a matter but to promote gossip and sensational news which is the main goal of her publisher.
Amara seems to have a deep seated struggle against her own lesbian nature. How come people continue to hit on her? There is something called “gay raiders, I think Amara’s raider is very active because of the way she picks the vibe of women lesbians and the way they pick her out too.
Finally, Amara, this type of journalism can lead to mob action, family break up and deepseated self-hatred that continue to lead some tenage youths to suicide in some advance countries. Watch it before it hits your own very house.
Very surprising that it has gotten to the point(in nigeria) that people now openly say they are gay/lesbians. Ah! These are some of signs of endtime being mentioned in the bible. God help us all.
Amara dear what is wrong wit 2people luving each other, irrespective of their sexes love deserves some respect. No one chooces 2be molested by folks like u, it is their lifestyle, their sexuality &part of their humanity that cant be changed no matter ddegree of hate. Pls drop dis issue cos u know notying about it.
HEAR ME!, Unless you repent and forgo dis devilish act, eternal Suffering in Hellfire awaits all homosexuals & Lesbians.. Mark my words.. For more info: You can mail at samuel.ukpong@yahoo.com or call 08032739839
Any form of exposure to sex can so strongly stimulate the brain’s pleasure centre that one has a natural urge to want to try it again. You body will respond to any stimulation you interprete as sexual it doesn’t matter whether you believe the stimulation is right or wrong and it also doesn’t matter the source(male,female,baby,dog,cloth etc). Those who were sexually abused may also develop strong urges to have sex again with their abusers/ or other people of the abusers sex even when they don’t like it. It is natural doesn’t make it good. I will not tell a diabetic patient not to mind the disease because it is natural-IT CAN AND SHOULD BE CONTROLLED. SAME WITH SEXUAL URGES. If you are having sexual habits that you probably enjoy but you believe you shouldn’t be practising or are ashamed of then seek help. You don’t have to surrender to sexual urges. Same-sex sexual pleasures are natural psychologic and physiologic body responses to ANY stimulation of the senses interpreted as sexual. Habitual use of this sex can either be a ‘disease’ or a decision.
God bless you AMARA for revealing this truth.REPENT! HOMOSEXUALITY IS A CURSE.You will give account of how you use your body on the judgement day.Your body is the temple of God.JESUS LOVES YOU.THE KINGDOM OF HEAVEN IS AT HAND.
Amara might av stated an obvious truth but she was pretty biased about it,and its not good for journalism and democracy and all of u sayin thank u for revealing dis truth,it has always been revealed,i might not support homosexuality but i am in no position to judge and call any1 evil because of dia sexuality.Amara’s article is simply too judgemental