
Finding a way out of the past and making creative decisions to move on would not at any time be easy —memory is part of creation. I don’t think anyone enjoys the experience of rehearsing past hurt or rewinding unpleasant events; we all wish they go away with the passing of time but truly the [...]

Your ability to let go and move on determines the speed at which you can go. Literally, leaving yesterday to pass with its trouble and looking forward to fresh challenges and ways to handle them makes life worth living and really exciting. ‘Life goes on’ – this has been one of the greatest lessons I’ve [...]

Mere mention of the word ‘beginning’ evokes fear in most people. It’s a lot easier to continue on an old path than dare breaking new grounds —this could be one reason we resist change vehemently. Starting a new thing comes with an air of uncertainty and unpredictability. The day you started a new job, relationship, [...]

There is no denying the fact some relationships are more challenging than others. To some people, as I mention the word ‘gratitude’, it evokes a painful memory about life that if they had a way of getting through to me; would narrate how life has been unfair to them. But for the fact that I [...]

Thinking of hard times is absolutely the last thing on the mind of anyone planning to get married. This does not mean we are selfish or bad, but man simply loves easy and comfortable life; this was the original take off from creation, so you can’t change it because it’s innate. In a way, this [...]

There seem to be issues with emotional dependency when one is strongly attached to the apron of his/her lover and act as if their whole lives depended on them. Demanding approval and support from others could happen both in romantic and platonic relationships or platonic sometimes develop into intimacy due to unnecessary closeness. Being in [...]

Relationships do not end suddenly. When people say their partners just called them at work or home to declare a sudden change of mind about their lives together coming to an end, I can’t stop questioning the sincerity of such claims. People break up as a result of build ups—unresolved or unforgiving issues. Managing disagreements [...]