Marriage, I must tell you from experience, is one venture that’s worth preparing for – and very well at that. Your preparation is a function of who you really are, that is: personality/temperament, religion, location, family background, status/class, etc. For the purpose of precision, I will like to mention at this point that there is [...]
Basking in the fantasy land of love and romance would naturally make someone forget that their newly found ‘love’ is human and capable of manifesting tendencies to that effect. Years ago, I can remember listening to a young bride enthuse about her hubby; “I wonder if my husband is human or an angel walking the [...]
Your journey in life is made meaningful thru relationships —you may have things but only people get to remember you when life ends. Creating or building a relationship is a job for a large heart. Small minds think of ‘me’ but large ones consider others; how to please or help them realize their goals. As [...]
Even the strongest person would first feel the pangs of being rejected and only put self together after a good session of either self-talk or simply reminding himself/herself of whom they are and what they stand for. There is no point making people who suffer rejection feel like they are the most insecure persons on [...]
This is something I have been thinking of handling for quite a while but needed to naturally get into it. By using the word ‘naturally’ I mean “Being sure people really wanted to read about it”. Mails, private discuss and anonymous questions have all revealed the ‘heat’. The word ‘sex’ on its own is treated [...]
In a society as clumsy and chaotic as ours, one can still catch up with good times in relationships if that really matters to you. The days of courtship/dating saw many promises of love, happiness, anxiety and generally just looking forward to the institution of marriage. It was nice to dream of lovely kids smiling [...]
One finds it quite unusual for someone to scream ‘CELEBRATE’. I cannot blame you because we find ourselves in a world where criticism is the order of the day. People were blamed as children, heavily criticised as teenagers, humiliated for poor college grades, mocked for choosing their dream career, questioned when they wanted to [...]
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