14th March, 2020
Comedian, Ayobami Ayo-Ajewole, popularly known as Woli Agba has disclosed that familiarity is the major cause men cheat on their wives.
The comedian gave his opinion during a program as a guest on TVC’s Your View.
He said seeing one’s wife every day makes the man get used to her and makes him overlook her value.
In his words, “Familiarity bores men sometimes. The fact that you are seeing her every day and you are already used to her is what makes men ‘look outside.”
He added that a man’s love for his wife can be revived when the man remembers how he struggled to win her love.
He said: “But when you remember how you were chasing your wife before she finally said yes, you place more value on her.”
He was also asked to give his opinion after a Nigerian man stated that a real man will not allow his wife to be successful, instead he will place her on salary to curb her pride.
Woli responded: “Whatever happens between a couple should be based on their personal choices. If the man decides to place his wife on salary, and she agrees, so be it.
“As a wife, your husband should be your secret place. Don’t make him feel inferior.”
He added: “Civilization has done a lot of injuries to our culture. If a woman is earning more than her husband, for example, she could give the children’s fees to her husband in secret, so he can pay. That’s a way to not make him feel inferior.”