9th August, 2022
Famous Nigerian fashion entrepreneur and celebrity stylist, Toyin Lawani has opened up on how she coped with the trauma of losing the pregnancy of her fourth child.
The fashion mogul in a social media post also explained the pains she went through at the time.
The mother of three revealed that she had undergone numerous surgeries, including fibroid surgeries, arthritis, and others.
Contrary to how people viewed her quick recovery after her third child through surgery, Lawani said she had to get back on her feet because she hates showing weakness.
Sharing a video on her Instagram page, the fashion goddess showed off some of her moments while rocking her fourth baby bump and her third child, Leora.
Captioning the post, she wrote: “Tnks to everyone who reached out ,
Godbless u all,
Loosing An unborn child can be the most difficult trauma to deal with , cse u wld hv Bonded&started making plans for the future ,
I have always said I wanted to hv jst 2kids ,
Then my doc advised me to take out my womb out due to the Complications I was having ,
I delt with alot, multiple fibriod surgeries, arthritis, back backs , neck pains ,side pains, atimes I would literally wake up paralyzed ,I wear a neck brace daily but when in public I take it off, too many questions 🤣,
So went for the 3rd baby again, Atleast before I do the final surgery, from my last borns pregnancy found out I had a cyst in my Brian cse d headaches were super&back pains tripled , I got doctors opinions in Nigeria they said we can’t treat you till you have this baby , best thing is take the baby out&we will get you the care u nid,
At this time I was already attached I said no&went abroad, they managed d situation till I had d baby ,
Which was why they said I couldn’t hv it naturally like my other kids ,Got back on my feet in no time ,months after my legs&bones gave way ,d pain was too much went back again abroad they said my bones were degenerating due to the pressure,
At this point my legs were swollen, I couldn’t walk ,
this was few days to my 40th birthday party in Nigeria ,I had so much plans for my 40th but I said nothing&opted for prayer for my late mom ,
Few months forward I found out I was pregnant again ,this wasn’t planned atall&i and hubby said tell no one ,cse we weren’t sure ,even when my friends said ,ure pregnant, I will just laugh abt it 🤣
And say no it’s not there ,unfortunately I got so stressed &depressed, started bleeding as usual cse I bleed having all my kids ,from day one till due date, so felt it was normal ,but it took a huge turn& I lost it ,in the process I’m hearing I need a spine surgery I’m like how old I’m i 😫
Anyways I have lost so many things in life ,
But I felt this to my bones ,
Cause it could have bn avoided but I thank God for his mercy upon my life,
I neva hv shared ds much cse I hate showing weakness , But neva judge a Book by its cover⚔️
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