20th August, 2024
By Oluwapelumi Oluwayemi
Award-winning singer Yemi Alade has taken to social media to share her thoughts on the true nature of friendships and relationships, leading to discussion among her followers.
In a short post on Instagram, Alade stressed that the real strength of any bond, be it with a friend or a partner, is revealed during moments of disagreement.
“Until you have quarreled with your friend or partner, you will never know the true depth of your relation-SHIP or Canoe,” Alade wrote.
She went on to reveal the importance of recognizing when to allow people to exit one’s life, stating,
“Allowing people to exit your life and knowing when to end a friendship or any ship whatsoever is a life-saving intuition.”
The post resonated deeply with many of her fans, who took to the comments section to share their own perspectives on the topic.
One user, @celebritysalesboi, reflected on how critical it is to understand a partner’s true character before marriage, advising,
“Before going into marriage, provoke your partner to get their reaction and know their anger limit and how they handle situations.”
Another follower, @c.h.i.o.m.a, encouraged testing a partner’s temperament, saying,
“Try Dey vex your man make he show you him true color,” while @ruchina_sky wished for genuine connections, writing, “May the genuine ones find genuine ones!”
The conversation extended beyond romantic relationships, with @taiwo_junzi drawing a similarity to faith in God, stating,
“True love/friendship is tested in the days of adversity. Extend the same thing to faith in God.”