How helping people almost ruined me – Actress, Omoborty

Nollywood actress Biodun Okeowo, popularly known as Omoborty, has urged people to be cautious about extending help to others at the expense of their personal well-being.

In an Instagram post, the actress shared a conversation she had with a colleague who was overwhelmed by over 560 help requests in his direct messages.

The situation made her reflect on her own experience of frequently using personal funds to assist others.

“Help, but not at your own detriment,” she cautioned. “If you respond to every touching story, one day you’ll become one too. And sadly, the same people clapping now will ask, ‘What did you even do with your money?’”

Okeowo emphasized the pressure of emotional appeals and warned against guilt-tripping others into giving beyond their means. She noted that while the need is real, there are also many fake stories circulating.

She encouraged fans to prioritize their responsibilities and avoid being judged for setting boundaries: “Everyone has their own struggles. Don’t let anyone make you feel bad for not being able to help.”

The actress concluded with a prayer that future generations will experience ease and prosperity, adding, “Even jollof rice no dey go round sometimes.”