Kaffy opens up on marriage, divorce experience

Nigerian dance icon Kafayat Oluwatoyin Shafau, popularly known as Kaffy, has opened up on marriage and divorce.

The dancer while speaking with the Honest Bunch, spoke about how divorce reduces a woman’s chance at love again.

Kaffy noted that divorce, however, should not reduce a woman’s worth. She stated that a divorced woman can be a good wife especially if she took out time to improve herself.

“What makes you think that a woman that has been divorced is not even the better candidate if she has worked on herself? What’s the guarantee that two single people today are not going to be divorced tomorrow?‎”Why are people feeling like ‘I need to marry him fresh, I need to marry her fresh’, but both of you are going into the same data that the world has completed for you, that over 70 percent of marriages crashed. You’re part of the 70 percent”, she said.

Kaffy also noted that romance is often confused for love. She stated that some acts in love are just trauma responses.

“Do you know that a lot of butterfly in the tummy are a lot of trauma response?. ‎Real love brings peace”, she said.