5 unique things to know about Bukayo Saka’s fiancee, Tolami Benson

By Tolulope Oke

English football star Bukayo Saka reportedly proposed to his fiancée, Tolami Benson, yesterday during a private dinner in London, As Arsenal star prepares for wedding bells, attention has shifted to the woman by his side, Tolami Benson, the stylish, low-key partner who has captured public interest while keeping her life largely private.

Here are five unique things to know about the soon-to-be Mrs. Saka.

1. She Works in Media & Communications

Far from the typical celebrity-influenced lifestyle, Tolami has built her own career. She studied Public Relations and Media at Birmingham City University and now works as a Senior Planning Executive at Zenith, a respected media and communications agency in London.

2. She’s of Nigerian Descent

Like Saka, Tolami has Nigerian roots, even though she was born and raised in the UK. Her background has made her relatable to many young British-Nigerians who see her as a blend of culture, professionalism, and modern identity.

3. She Keeps Her Relationship Extremely Private

Tolami and Saka have famously kept their romance away from the spotlight.
The couple reportedly does not follow each other on Instagram, and rarely appears publicly together — a deliberate choice to guard their relationship from media scrutiny.

4. She Quietly Supports Saka’s Football Career

Though private, Tolami has been spotted at matches and tournaments supporting Saka.
During a major competition this year, she was seen wearing a jacket designed with Saka’s former squad number, a subtle show of loyalty that fans immediately noticed.

5. She Balances Career, Style, and Privacy

Tolami has built a personal brand defined by elegance and professionalism, not celebrity exposure. She posts selectively on social media, maintains a strong corporate career, and avoids the typical “footballer’s fiancée” spotlight, making her one of the most unique partners in English football today.