Blessing CEO addresses relationship criticism

Media personality and relationship therapist Blessing Okoro, also known as Blessing CEO has fired back at critics who constantly hope against the success of her relationship.

Blessing CEO took to her Instagram page on Tuesday to address the criticism. She stated that such trolls are damaged due to past experiences.

The relationship therapist also noted that while disagreements are normal in relationships, it does not automatically mean the couple can’t work it out.

“A lot of you are damaged. When you are damaged anything beautiful becomes too good to be true. Being damaged isn’t an insult but a mental and emotional kind of disease that comes from our past pain. A lot of you who have seen celebrity marriages crumble. Those ones you look up to in terms of marriage are no longer married,” she said.

Blessing CEO also spoke against the people always waiting for others to experience heartbreak. She referred to them as damaged and traumatized.

“Social media has put a lot of chaos in your mind. So anytime you see a lot of beautiful relationships you cannot wait for it to crumble. A lot of you are so damaged that you begin to doubt true love. You become anti love because of fear and past trauma. Some of you have not even experienced anything bad but you have taken other people’s experience and begun to live in it. You see relationships and marriage, there will always be make ups and break ups, you know why?. Because it is two different people coming together in agreement. Disagreement is normal,” she said.

Blessing CEO who is currently engaged to IVD, stated that vulnerability should not be seen as a weakness. She urged her critics to heal so as to receive goodness.

“Let us understand that it is from our choice of a man or a woman we become hurt. Stop generalising it, once you take out lessons from experience you become peaceful, you grow and evolve. A lot of you will not experience love because you are afraid to be vulnerable. I thought I should remind you that the act of always thinking negative in the face positivity is a sign of being damaged. I want you to go and heal so that any good thing that comes your way you understand that you deserve it,” she said.