The secret struggles behind my marriage with Teddy A – Bambam

Former Big Brother Naija housemate and Nollywood actress, Bamike Adenibuyan, popularly known as Bambam, has shared insights about her marriage and offered relationship advice to couples.

Speaking on the Echo Room podcast hosted by her husband, Tope “Teddy A” Adenibuyan, Bambam urged couples to abstain from intimacy before marriage, stressing the importance of counselling, therapy, and stability for building a lasting relationship.

Reflecting on her own marriage journey, Bambam admitted that her relationship with Teddy A was not a “fairy tale,” revealing they faced moments of doubt about whether their union was truly God’s will.

“I began to evolve as a woman, and he too was discovering himself. Our differences started to clash, and many times we asked ourselves why we were even here. But I held on to God and His promises for my marriage,” she said.

The actress advised couples to “keep the bed undefiled” and seek counselling before marriage, while ensuring they are emotionally, physically, and mentally prepared.

According to Bambam, Teddy A’s decision to surrender his life to Christ became a turning point in their marriage, easing tensions and strengthening their bond.

She also explained how she balances her acting career with family life, noting that while she fully embodies love scenes on set, she quickly switches back to her role as wife and mother once the cameras stop rolling.